P.A.U.S.E
Proud
Autistics
Unmasked
Social
Exchange
Next Event:
We’re taking off December for the holiday season. Our next event will be on Friday, January 24, 2025 from 2-4pm. We well be designing tote bags! RVSP here!
How To Join P.A.U.S.E
Sign up to become a member here. You can sign up for yourself, or a family member/aide can help you! Groups can also sign up their members here.
Wait for an email from us. You’ll receive an email within 48 hours with an invitation to join our group.
After receiving the invitation, click the link in the email to make a profile on our circle. Circle is a private website for our community where we post our events.
After finishing your profile, find the circle named “PAUSE.” This is where you can sign up for events!
What is P.A.U.S.E?
P.A.U.S.E is a social club for non/minimally-speaking and/or intellectually disabled Autistic adults in the NYC area.
The program, designed by Autistic adults, is a non-clinical, relaxed experience with the specific needs of Autistics in mind. Our goal is to connect adults across the city, encourage self-advocacy, Autistic pride, and create an enjoyable social environment.
Our events are free and open to Autistic adults (18+) of the NYC tri-state area. Members are welcome to bring a family member or support worker to accompany them at events, interpret, or assist with any specific needs.
Our events are low stress! Members can participate in the main activity however they please and communicate in whatever form they are comfortable with (AAC, gestures, etc). We do not push members for spoken communication, nor require members to follow specific directions/rules other than contributing to a safe environment.
If there are any questions, concerns, or specific accessibility needs/accommodations, please reach out: info@autisticadultsnyc.org
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PAUSE is a social program and is not designed to replace any clinical/therapeutic programs. Any adults with specific needs should have an aide present to assist them.
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Our general are open to all Autistics. But keep in mind our general events are structured differently than PAUSE events. PAUSE events are more catered to non-speaking and ID Autistics. Activities at our general events typically revolve around spoken communication, and some events may be in louder/less accessible environments. Additionally, we try to keep our general events a safe space for Autistic adults, as many prefer to be in an Autistic-only environment. Non-Autistic support workers/family are still welcome at our general events, but advanced notice is required.
If you have any questions about one of our upcoming general events, please reach out! - info@autisticadultsnyc.org.
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Because of space constraints, and to keep the priority of PAUSE events towards non-speaking/ID individuals, we kindly request that those who don’t fall under the umbrella of ID or non-speaking refrain from RSVPing.
This helps maintain a comfortable space for participants, such as making sure the events focus primarily on non-verbal interaction, so no one feels excluded.
Please check out our many other events for Autistic adults!
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Low-support needs: People who might need some support, but in general can lead independent lives.
High-support needs: People who require day-to-day care and support.
Non-speaking: A person who is unable to communicate by speaking, but may use other methods to communicate (communication boards, sign language, gestures, etc).
Minimally-speaking: A person who might speak some, or unreliably speak, and may use other methods to aid with communication.
Intellectually disabled (ID): A person with an intellectual disability. They may have difficulties with learning, communication, and independent living.
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Non-Verbal = Without Language/Words. Many “Non-verbal” Autistics communicate through communication boards, typing, sign language and finger spelling, which all include words and language! Many non-speaking advocates state that the term “non-speaking” accurately reflects their experience, and discourages the stigma that “non-verbal” individuals are “non-thinking.”
Functioning labels can be seen as cold/offensive to some Autistic people, as they refer to their “economic value” or how they might “function” in society. Using “high-functioning” to refer to someone might dismiss their struggles, and “low-functioning” dismisses their capabilities and value as a person. Referring to someone’s support needs emphasizes what the Autistic individuals needs are, rather than how they “function” in society.